One thing that I hate about myself is that whenever there is a guy that I like I automatically think to myself 'Can I see myself married to this guy.' Why do I do this? Am I the only one who does this or do others think the same way? I wish that I could just learn to stop these thoughts and try to enjoy myself and what this guy has to offer me w/out jumping the gun and freaking myself out. Because then I just start to focus on the things that I don't like about the guy thinking that well I could never end up w/ this guy b/c of____! Then I eventually talk myself out of liking the guy. It is a sicking process that I go through all the time.
If you have any advise please let me know....
Sunday, February 10, 2008
Hmmm. Could this guy be the one???
Posted by Verona Says at Sunday, February 10, 2008
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I have those same thoughts, because I don't want to "waste" my time on someone I don't see myself marrying in the future. Hope you will find THE one - soon!
Are you talking about a specific guy MB?
I think you need to just let things happen and not stress over it, because when the time is right it will be when you least expect it and will work out for the best. Worrying about what may happen, takes the fun out of it all.
Thanks for the advise. I just hope that I can just go w/ the flow! Crossing my fingers.
We've all been there, girlfriend. Next time you date a guy that you know you do like after a few dates, take the mindframe "how is he going to fit into MY life?" And date him very casually. Maybe date someone else casually simultaneously. It's your world, the right dude will find a way to fit into it. And if you keep it casual, you will have fun without investing everything.
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