Living in CA

This last Saturday I was driving in the car w/ my brother and sister in law who are in from Annapolis, MD. They were asking about me and what was going on in my life and then the conversation changed to where they would be moving to the end of May 2008. My brother is a Marine and his three years at Annapolis is almost up so his next home is either North Carolina or back to San Diego. They are hoping for SD since they have lived there before and have many friends that they can go back to. After they told me that SD is there pick on where they would like to end up my brother asked me if I wanted to come to SD and live on the Marine base w/ them. Yes they offered to have me come and live w/ them. And the shocking part is that this isn't the first time that he has asked me that. About 3 or 4 years ago he asked me the same thing. I being me turned them down. He told me that if I move out there in May w/ them that my sister in law could get me a job working in HR w/ her. Now if you know me at all you would know that this situation is ideal for me. 1st I LOVE the military and to be surrounded by them all the time... OH BOY! And 2nd I have always wanted to get into the HR field. But if you do know me you know that I would never leave Chicago. I can't do it. I have my family here (mostly my mom) and my friends. I don't see how I could leave them! I have been thinking about this since they asked me and I keep on thinking what if I am supposed to go. What if I am to go and get the job there. What if the man of my dreams is over there... I wish that I was more brave and would for one time in my life do something out of my comfort zone!